Nollywood’s ‘mr. Handsome’, Major Michel, gave such an amazing advice to the latest nollywood couple, Gbenro & osas that I’ve got to share. In a post on Instagram yesterday, Majid adviced Gbenro to be a leader and not a RULER, to be her PARTNER and not her BOSS.
Read post below;
Beautiful laugh….@officialosas….@gbenroajibade just gimme a second to share a word. A wedding is an event….But marriage is a life. I know a couple whose wedding lasted longer than their marriage. Love in marriage is more than just a feeling or an emotion. It is a choice. Love is a decision u refresh everyday with regards to your spouse. When you wake up in the morning throughout the say till night, you are choosing continually to love that man or woman u married. Be open to corrections. Being open to corrections means making ourselves vulnerable and many people are not willing to do that. Be an exception. OK Gbenro…. You are the HEAD of the family but don’t make a mistake, HEADSHIP is not RULERSHIP . As head you’re supposes to provide Spiritual leadership and direction to the family through your words, Lifestyle and personal behaviour. We are a sum total of what we have learned from all who have thought us both great and small. Success not only in marriage but in anything else is not what we have achieved in comparison to what the next man has achieved. You are not her BOSS!! You are her Partner!! Work together!! I love you both and its my prayer that you share the same vision till death. God bless the union Amen!! #LEADERSHIP #FOURFRONT1602 #FOURFRONT
Here’s what osas had to say in Reply;
Majid hit the nail right on the head, or whatdayathink?